Empowering You with a Simple Truth!

Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Empowering You with a Simple Truth!

Until about a year ago, I’d never uttered these words before.  I could’ve never imagined how powerful they could be.  Then they became life changers … words of empowerment, growth, and positive, healthy, happy change!

Instead of feeling like it wouldn’t be worth it to only walk for 10 minutes, I started telling myself walking for 10 minutes was better than not walking at all.

Instead of feeling like it wouldn’t be enough to take a coupla minutes to stop and just be and breathe, I started giving myself a coupla minutes to stop and just be and breathe … and my body thanks me every time for the calm and peace I invite into my being.

Instead of telling ourselves it’s only worth it if we do “it” BIG or spend “real time” doing it … we should be telling ourselves the truth:

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  • Walking/dancing
  • Yoga
  • Paced breathing
  • Eating more nutrient-dense nutritious foods
  • Cutting out sugar (major inflamer and health challenger)
  • Cutting out gluten (major inflamer and health challenger)
  • Giving myself de-stressing time through creativity/doodle-arting
  • Focusing on POSitude and affirmations
  • “Gratituding”
  • Spending time being mindful
  • Taking better care of my oral healthcare
  • Taking better care of my body
  • Getting more movement into my body (improving my strength and wellness)
  • Giving myself more self-love, self-respect, and self-care … prioritizing me and my wellness
  • Spending happy time with people I love and who love me
  • Smiling, laughing, playing
  • Sitting in the sun
  • Listening to sights and sounds of our bog (the amazing nature around us)
  • Growing my wellness knowledge to be able to take better care of myself and my loved ones
  • This list goes on and on …

I didn’t make all of these changes overnight.  But by allowing myself to grow in little bits … giving myself permission to accept progress over perfection … taking it one lil step at a time … I have made a world of positive, healthy, happy difference in my life!

I feel brighter, PINKer, filled with so much love and gratitude!  I see the goodness in me and what I can do.

It took time.  Lil bits.  Wanting change and allowing change, then growing it with gentle ease.

Not forcing myself into any one thing.  Not overwhelming myself with too much, too fast … not creating inevitable failure.

By waking up each day and listening to my body, heart, mind, and soul … hearing what I need … and giving myself what I need … I’ve grown miraculously!

Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Take today for instance.  I don’t feel well.  It’s one of my hormonally challenging days.  My arms, legs, & knees are weak.  My body is fatigued.  I feel heavy.  I feel challenged.  Even sitting up in my chair at my desk is more effort than usual.

Today, I need a little extra self-love and self-care.  Today, I need to slow down and take it easy.  I need to nourish with nutrient-dense foods.  I need to get gentle movement into my body to “keep the juices flowing and uncrumple it” from feeling like gravity is winning.  I need to nourish myself.  Nurture my wellness.  I need to give my body what it needs.  Surround myself with love and positivity.

So instead of beating myself up for moving slowly and not being able to tackle my list, I’m here visiting with you, sharing goodness from my heart, and creating a blog post I’ve been meaning to write for you.

Instead of expecting myself to dig into an hour of yoga (which I love to do), I’ll get on the mat to nurture my bodyI’ll listen to what it’s telling me it can do today … and that’s what I’ll do.  I’ll go gentle.  I’ll heal and be well.  And I’ll be happy with how much ever that is, and whatever it looks like.  I’ll be happy knowing I cared for my body and for myself with helpful, healing movement.

I’ll hydrate.  I’ll sit by the window and enjoy the sights and sounds of the bog, even though the sun is hiding behind a thick blanket of clouds a sprinkling rain today – the birds are still chirping, the bunnies are still munching, and the plant life gets greener with every drop of hydrating rain that falls.

I’ll connect with my honeybun and get some big hugs.  I’ll share some time Zooming with my Soul Circle of Beautiful Bright Women.

Today is not a day I move mountains uphill.  But that is ok.  Today, like every day, I know that every lil bit I do for myself is better than not doing anything at all.  I’ll do what I can, how I can, when I can … and that is a beautiful thing!

I will be enriched by even the smallest of my efforts!  I will feel better!

Even now, thinking of you, I am smiling!  I am feeling brighter!  Even with just happy thoughts of you and a smile …

Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Empower yourself with the simple, healing, loving, self-caring, happiness-creating, growing-you truth:

Imbue this truth with helpful, supportive wisdoms and guidance:

  • “Progress, not perfection.” Jill Stante
  • Focus on what you can do right now to help yourself, mind, body, soul, light, love, energy, and being to cope and heal!

 

Well, sweet, beautiful blossom, I hope this juiciness is just what you and your heart needed to hear to day!  I hope you feel my love and big hugs surrounding you with so much goodness, you feel yourself brightening being here with me.  And I thank you so much for sharing this time with me.  I give gratitude for this opportunity to help you find and grow – to be happy and well!

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate

What you give power, has power …

What you give power has power.  Mary Kate Kopec.  Love And Big Hugs.

Hello Gorgeous Loves,

I haven’t always been strong.  For a very long time, I wasn’t very strong at all.  And there are still times when I don’t feel strong.

But there’s this thought in my head, this guiding principle I use to grow:

What you give power, has power.

This guiding thought is an offshoot of a quote:

“It all begins in your mind.  What you give power to, has power over you.”

Leon Brown

Thank you Mr. Brown!  I find his original quote helpful to me when thinking about facing my anxieties, and I am grateful for his words.  To me, they tell me my anxiety is in my mind, and I can control it … which I try very hard to work on.  This quote is a part of my Happy, Healing Place Toolbox of Goodness!

But today, I want to talk about my offshoot thought … What you give power, has power!  To me, this version isn’t about something having control over you.  This version is about growing.  Taking something important to you and investing in it, so that it will grow and grow and grow. 

What you give power, has power.

And I’m talking about you!

Me.  You.  All of us!

  • If you grow your love, your love will be powerful!
  • If you grow your self-confidence, your self-confidence will strengthen and become powerful!
  • If you grow your ability to self-care, your self-care will be powerful!
  • If you grow your self-worth, your self-worth will be powerful!

When you invest in you, you invest in your values and what you can do for yourself.  You make yourself stronger, more self-reliant, more capable.  Better prepared to handle life and its obstacles and challenges.  You will be more open to the gifts of life.  The goodness for you!

It doesn’t mean you won’t stumble or even fall, ever again.  But that’s okay.  You keep investing, learning, and growing.  What you give power, has power.

When you give yourself power, you will have power!

It doesn’t mean you will always have to stand on your own if you don’t want to.  You can surround yourself with people who will love you, care for you, grow with you, support you, and who will bring you up and walk forward with you.  That way when life throws the hard curve balls, you don’t have do it all on your own.  That’s just you being strong and knowing what you need, when you need it, and doing your best to be prepared for when life happens.

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Live with POSitude!

We aren’t born knowing how to be strong, but as we face life and learn the lessons it is teaching us, we can grow our strength.  We learn who we are and what we are capable of.  We learn what we need and want to grow – what we want to be better at or stronger at.  This is all good!

In the process, we’ll fail, make mistakes, and need time to heal and grow.  That’s okay.  It’s how it works.  What’s important is not letting our failures or mistakes bring us down (at least not for too long).  Look at them for what they are, life’s learning and growing moments.  Learn and grow, and become stronger.  Also, it’s vital that we give ourselves the time we need to heal and grow.  (No one else gets to determine what that amount of time is.  It’s up to each of us.  It’s individual.  And it happens when it happens.)

The bottom line:

What you give power, has power.

So … will you give YOU power, so YOU have power? The power to love, laugh, be happy, be kind, find joy, feel gratitude, be healthy, be strong, be confident, be whatever you value … be your best you.  It’s up to you, but for sure, what you give power, has power!

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Thank you for being here – my heart is bright with joy for you! May your day be powerful with you and filled with love and happiness!!!

Love and Big Hugs,

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate
What you give power has power. Mary Kate Kopec. Love And Big Hugs.