100 Books – 100 Happy, Smiling Kids!
Lub’s Very Happy Day!
Holiday Donation Book Drive

100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive.  Mary Kate Kopec.  Love and Big Hugs.

Hello Precious Bright Stars!!!

It’s that time of year again! It’s time to help kids smile big and bright and feel love and happiness in their hearts!!! Christmas can be a difficult time for children in need. There are so many families who for so many reasons cannot afford to gifty-gift their kids at Christmastime.

Having connections to the medical community, for instance, I know that parents fighting cancer oftentimes face tremendous medical expenses that make Christmas even more difficult. Then there are the kids of low income families. And even right before I started writing this blog post, I was reminded of the children who themselves are hospitalized at Christmas fighting their own battles. This list goes on. And so for me, I thought … let’s help make some kids smile big this holiday! My special gift to give always is love and big hugs … and this year, I have a very special way of sharing those big loves and big hugs. She happens to come in the form of an adorable, lovable, happy monster named Lub who is having a very happy day! Thus 100 Books – 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub’s Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive was born.

Pauli and I were never able to have kids, so our nurturing hearts found other ways to share and spread love! And Lub’s Very Happy Day! story and activity book is one of those ways! This year we have already donated one classroom set of Lub’s Very Happy Day! books to a 4th grade classroom in Bay City, MI. And I got this big idea … Let’s do a Lub’s Very Happy Day! holiday donation book drive to get 100 copies of Lub’s Very Happy Day! donated to kids in need, so we can make at least a 100 kids smile … cuz Lub will do that to you … she’s big on making smiles, sharing love and happiness, and giving hugs! … And then, if 100 books get donated, we can do a random hat drawing for one lucky donator to win a classroom set for another classroom of their choice! Also, as I mentioned a moment ago, a nursing friend of my reminded me that there are children who will be confined to their hospital rooms for the holidays, and so I’m also open to the gift set of books being donated to children in hospitals.

With all of this in mind … let’s be the loving, bright stars we are and share and donate! Let’s make a happy, smiling big, loving difference to kids in need! Here’s how!

100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Help me put smiles on at least 100 kids’ faces this holiday season by buying a copy of Lub’s Very Happy Day! and donating it to the charity that moves your heart (Toys for Tots, your church toy drive, etc).

In return, I will donate a classroom set of Lub’s Very Happy Day! books (up to 30 copies) to the winning participant’s classroom of choice (to be determined by random hat drawing).

  • This holiday donation book drive ENDS Sunday, December 15, 2019, midnight, EST.
  • The recipient classroom of the classroom set of Lub’s Very Happy Day! books (up to 30 copies) must be in the continental United States.
100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.
  • You buy a copy Lub’s Very Happy Day! from Amazon
  • You send me proof of your purchase to marykate at loveandbighugs.com
  • I will put your name in a hat for a random drawing for every copy of Lub’s Very Happy Day! you donate.
  • You donate the copy to the charity that moves your heart (Toys for Tots, your church toy drive, etc).
  • When we reach 100 copies donated, I will draw a random name from the hat and donate an inscribed, classroom set (up to 30 copies) of Lub’s Very Happy Day! books in the winner’s name!  (Shipping to classroom’s school included.)
  • It’s that easy!!!
100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Lub makes kids of all ages smile big and instantly feel happier.  She can’t help it … she’s drawn that way, lol!

What the kids are saying about Lub and her very happy day story and activity book!

“My grandson thinks Lub is cool!  We love Lub’s Very Happy Day!Kris B.  Elkhart, IN

“I read Lub’s Very Happy Day! to Ethan (6) and Ally (5), and they said it’s full of joy, and it made them feel happy!” Karen H.  Hamburg, MI

Maybe you are wondering what Lub is all about … well, she’s very much me in my kid-like, loving, cute monster self … so when I wrote her story I thought about things I love, and I wanted to fill her story with happy images of some of my favorite things. So that’s exactly what I did!

  • I love cute monsters – so of course Lub would have to be adorable.
  • I love PINK – so, lol, of course – Lub’s the PINKest monster, EVER!
  • I love LOVE.  Love in all it’s kindness.  Giving and sharing.  Compassion.  Big Heartedness.  Playfulness.  Silliness.  All of it!
  • I love nature and being outdoors.  The sunshine.  The woodland creatures.  Adorable buggy boos.  The flowers and the trees.  And oh how I love bright, sunny, warm blue skies with fluffy cotton ball clouds floating by … and all the imaginary shapes I can see!
  • I love reading, creating, playing, eating healthy snacks.
  • I love spending happy time with friends and loved ones.

Lub’s Very Happy Day! is filled with delightful brightness and big huggy smiles!

100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.
How a treasured friendship lost gave me something life changing to be grateful for! Lub's Very Happy Day! Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Lub is the happiest, PINKest, most love-filled monster, Ever! Her big, PINK heart is always with her, and it beams brightly in everything she does!

How a treasured friendship lost gave me something life changing to be grateful for! Lub's Very Happy Day! Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Lub loves you!

Join Lub as she shares with you her love and very happy, monster-ifically delightful day! Feel playful and bright, smile big, and be happy! Have fun and be cheerful as Lub lovingly models healthy behaviors, like:

  • Being happy
  • Smiling big
  • Having fun
  • Being kind
  • Spending fun time with oneself
  • Having independence/self-reliance
  • Being imaginative
  • Having positive friendships
  • Napping
  • Eating well
  • Having compassion
  • Enjoying silliness
  • Valuing companionship
  • Being grateful

Watch your child’s face brighten with big smiles at every adorable page turn. Kiss them goodnight with happiness floating in their heads and big smiles filling their hearts!

Additional Features of Lub’s Very Happy Day:

  • Adorable, bright, full color, happy art and images spark big smiles
  • Positive, lighthearted, and encouraging
  • Fun to read and experience

Feel Lub’s love, happiness, and fun! Bring her home to share now!

How a treasured friendship lost gave me something life changing to be grateful for! Lub's Very Happy Day! Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.
100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.
100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Until next week …

Thank you for being here with me! Thank you for donating your love and big hugs to this 100 Books – 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub’s Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive and helping me help at least 100 kids to smile big! I hope your holiday season is filled with love and kindness, big hugs and big love, laughter and squee, and healthiness! And the biggest smiles, ever!!!

Love and Big Hugs,

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate
100 Books - 100 Happy, Smiling Kids! Lub's Very Happy Day! Holiday Donation Book Drive. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs.

Create your very own Happy Healing Place toolbox of goodness!

Create your very own happy healing place toolbox of goodness. Mary Kate Kopec.  Love and Big Hugs

Hello Happy Hearts!

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote about how kindness saved my life.  In my story of me, I talked about having a safe place to go and be while life was beating me down.  In our happy chit chat today, I want to grow this idea into a bursting toolbox of goodness that will help you tackle the tough times!

Firstly, lemme explain what I mean by a safe place.  To me, safe can be physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually … it can refer to any plane you are existing on.  So to me, a safe place is a place you feel happy, relaxed, calm, at peace, … to me, it is a place for you to heal your heart, mind, body, soul … whatever needs healing.

So let’s call it our happy, healing place!

Depending on whatever trauma and drama your life is dealing down on you, this place can vary, as well as how you use it. 

Let’s grow your Happy, Healing Place Toolbox of Goodness.  You can fill it with anything that makes you happy and helps you heal.  Things like:

  • happy memories
  • happy imagined places
  • photos of happy times
  • happy meditations
  • songs or music that make you feel happy
  • happy books you can read
  • a journal for creating, drawing, arting it up, and writing out thoughts that lead you back to happiness
  • favorite places you love that make you feel calm, peaceful, and happy
  • spending happy time with a friend
  • … and anywhere or anything else you can think of

To give you an idea of something you can put into your toolbox of goodness, here is a drawing of my favorite imagined place and the words I use to meditate it into my mind.  For me, this place is perfect.  It’s nature and delight.  It’s comfortable.  Peaceful.  Relaxing.  And it makes me smile.  The sun is always warm and bright.  The tree is always strong and protective.  The birds are always delightful.  Even the bugs are filled with mirth (and they never sting or bite!).  My blanket is soft and great for sitting, laying, and napping.  The breeze is always soothing.  Sometimes, I add bunnies, squirrels, and/or chipmunks.  And since Baby Bear (our beloved cookie cat) has gone on to live in the stars on Betelgeuse, sometimes even he visits me here … he always did love a good sun warming.  And if Pauli is away and can’t be with me right then, he comes and sits with me, too.

Create your very own happy healing place toolbox of goodness. Mary Kate Kopec.  Love and Big Hugs

Your place can be anywhere, with anything and anybody that makes you feel good, happy, peaceful … anything and everything that helps you relax and heal.  That gives you and your body, mind, soul, and spirit a rest.

In last week’s post, I talked about how all the forms of stress (mental, physical, emotional …) wear your body down and impact your health.  I talked about when you don’t feel well, you likely don’t feel very happy.  So whatever trauma or drama is causing you stress (be it at work, home, in a relationship, anxiety, whatever, wherever, whoever), it’s hurting you, your health, and your happiness.  Your Happy, Healing Place Toolbox of Goodness helps you get needed rest to rejuvenate and cope by spending time in your safe, happy, healing place.

Your toolbox is a tremendous asset to your wellness!

So a very good reason for you to grow your toolbox and to have it pre-made/thought of, written out, collected (however you want to assemble it for readiness) is that it becomes an easy go-to and reminder of all the tricks you have up your sleeves for when times get tough and your stress levels go up.

Because, honestly, once you are already feeling down, bad, low, stressed, and anxious, it can hard to remember the goodness in your life.  It can be hard to remember the happinesses in your life.  It can be hard to remember what to do and how to help you feel better.  This toolbox is for you!

To help you get started, I’m giving you 2 coloring pages – all you have to do is click below.  One is for you to be able to create a visual of a happy place you love.  The other one is for you to list out, write out, explain, draw, … whatever works for you … your list of happy, healing places to spend healing time in.  Perhaps even a reminder checklist of your options.  Whatever works for you.  Keep in mind, some of your happy, healing places might work better for certain kinds of trauma and drama than others, and etc.  So be creative.  Think happy!  Grow your Happy, Healing Place Toolbox of Goodness, and get to healing and feeling happier! This is self-care that loves and big hugs you tight!

Create your very own happy healing place toolbox of goodness Color Page get button. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs

Ready to take my Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness: Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge?

Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs
Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs

Each day support your healthiness with feeling less stress, less anxiety, more happiness and more positivity!

Easy, fun, happy, silly, adorable, and totally supporting you!

7 days of Love and Big Hugs!

Delightfully cheerful & colorful art will lift & brighten your smile!

11 loving, big hugging, and supporting pages include proven happier and healthier promoting strategies:

  • Smile-making, positivity-promoting, happy coloring blocks
  • Gratitude Acknowledgements
  • Self-acknowledgement Reaffirmations
  • Includes “how to get the most out of this challenge” intro page & a summary reflection page
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You can also check out my new ETSY shop!!!

Get Your POSitude On!

Feel happier! Supported! Loved! Hugged!

Bring brightness and goodness into your day, and into your life!

Get inspired every day with a deck of my new POSitude cards! Available in my Etsy shop. Check them out and learn more, now!

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I’m so happy you are here! You make my day brighter, and I thank you for your love and totally PINK hearts and smiles!!! Wishing you a delightful day filled with kindness and hope!!!

Love and Big Hugs,

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate
Create your very own happy healing place toolbox of goodness. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs

Arting it up for happiness and healthiness – color your stress away!

Arting It Up for happiness and healthiness: Color your stress away! Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs

Hello Sparkling Sprites of Joy!

I’m so excited to talk to you today about THE something that has helped me calm my anxious nerves and tackle overwhelming stress more than anything else (except for Pauli’s hugs and soothing voice) … but he can’t be by me 24/7, and let’s be real … even heroes need a break now and again! :0)

So what do I do to calm myself, to relax, de-stress, and squelch the anxious voices and energy that can take me from peaceful to freaked out in zero to instantaneously?  I art it up!

I’m more of an anxious person (had my first full on panic attack when I was 11) than someone who gets stressed out.  But anxiety and the anxious, negative energy it produces creates physical and emotional stress … so even though it’s a different input for the stress, it’s still stress.  And blossoms, stress is B. A. D., baaaaaaddd!

Whatever form it comes in, stress is inflammatory, and chronic inflammation has been identified as a key player/root cause in many, many diseases and states of unwellness:  heart disease, type 2 diabetes, some cancers, ulcerative colitis and Crohn’s disease, asthma, multiple sclerosis, and rheumatoid arthritis, just to name a few.  

So let me hit some highlights about chronic inflammation.  Don’t worry, I’m gonna zoom through here without scary scientific words just so we can be on the same page.

If there is a chronic inflammation, you might think there is likely an acute inflammation, and if so, you’d be right.  So what’s the difference?

In the big picture: acute inflammation is the body’s healthy response to injury and illness to help your body heal, and it only lasts for a little while.  Whereas, chronic inflammation is your body continuing its efforts to heal you for a long period of time (months to years), but the cause of the inflammation isn’t going away.  Too much of a good thing is not so good.  Too much inflammation actually hurts you.

inflammation happiness healthiness art therapy Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs

What kinds of things feed chronic inflammation?  Lots of things actually.  Poor diet, physical stress, mental stress, emotional stress, stress, stress, stress (stress is definitely a potent problem, cuz we all seem to have lots of it … lots of the time), … additionally, things like food allergies, environmental toxins (i.e., even the chemicals in your shampoo can be inflammatory), lack of exercise, bad/unhealthy habits, … you get the idea.

Are you with me when I say, healthiness impacts happiness, and happiness impacts healthiness?  I say this, because, if you’re not healthy, you don’t feel well, and when you don’t feel well, it’s harder to feel happy.  Likewise, when you are unhappy, it’s a form of stress, and stress leads to inflammation, and inflammation leads to unhealthiness.

Ideally … (insert as many LOLs as you need to here for this next statement, cuz I know it’s hard to achieve) … ideally, we achieve a balance in our lives, so we can glow radiantly.

In reality, it’s normal to have some low level of chronic inflammation … it kind of goes along with living.  Normal-ish/ideal looks a bit like this:

inflammation happiness healthiness art therapy Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs

But it’s when we get a multitude of factors that build up and feed our chronic inflammation, that things get mucky.  Our level of chronic inflammation goes up and up and up and our beautiful balance of health and happiness gets squashed, and that can look like this:

inflammation happiness healthiness art therapy Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs

Given that I’ve been dealing with chronic illness for about 5 years now (to include chronic fatigue), I have been growing and growing and growing my awareness and knowledge about my body and my health, trying hard to heal, and living an anti-inflammatory life to the best of my ability.  Mind you, I’m not perfect … but I have learned a lot, and I’ve made a ton of changes that have been helping me tremendously!

But for fun, just between you and me … I still eat dessert, almost daily.  Sugar is super inflammatory … like super duper … but a girl should get at least a little bit of chocolate fun most days, right?!!!!

So what do I do to help reduce the inflammation in my life?  Well, I actively live a life where I try to reduce all the factors that promote inflammation, or as many as possible.  And my anxiety is a bit of challenge.  LOL, a bit of challenge? It’s often a BIG challenge.

I did a lot of reading, and I learned that being creative and arting it up … even coloring … any kind of art, whether you are good or bad at it, doesn’t matter.  It all helps.  So I started drawing and coloring.  And lo and behold, I found what I read to be true!  When you art it up, it redirects your thinking and your attention away from the anxious thoughts and the stress crawling up your spine.  Well, … yes, please.  I hate feeling anxious, and when I sit down to color or draw or doodle or whatever, it takes my mind off of the scary thoughts and my anxiety and stress levels come way down, even all the way down.

So … for you.  Today, I’m giving you one of my squee-doodles to print off right now and color.  Give it a try.  Take 5 minutes and see if you relax a little.  Or even a lot.  

Arting It Up Happier and Healthier Color Page Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs get button

I’ve talked to my girlfriends who have tried the adult coloring books, and what I hear a lot is that they actually get stressed, because they try to do all the coloring, but the pictures are so large, and the details are so fine, they get stressed trying to make time to finish the picture (which defeats the purpose)

If this is you, then you’ll love my cutie patutie little color blocks.  They’re small, adorkable, filled with fun and happiness, POSitude, and they only take a little bit to color.  BUT, they give you a few minutes just to yourself (self-care), to color happiness and wellness into your body. 

You can take your self-care up a notch by doing calm breathing while you color.  And also, if you think about things that make you grateful while you color … or something you’ve done today that you feel good about … you reinforce yourself with positive, stress relieving reaffirmation.  And all of this, you dear lovely heart, is SO VERY GOOD for you and your happiness and healthiness!

I hope you enjoy your color page today!  It’s totally FREE and on me.

Ready to take my Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness: Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge?

Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs
Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs

Each day support your healthiness with feeling less stress, less anxiety, more happiness and more positivity!

Easy, fun, happy, silly, adorable, and totally supporting you!

7 days of Love and Big Hugs!

Delightfully cheerful & colorful art will lift & brighten your smile!

11 loving, big hugging, and supporting pages include proven happier and healthier promoting strategies:

  • Smile-making, positivity-promoting, happy coloring blocks
  • Gratitude Acknowledgements
  • Self-acknowledgement Reaffirmations
  • Includes “how to get the most out of this challenge” intro page & a summary reflection page
Arting It Up for Happiness and Healthiness Color Me Happier 7 Day Challenge Mary Kate Kopec Love and Big Hugs get button

You can also check out my new ETSY shop!!!

Get Your POSitude On!

Feel happier! Supported! Loved! Hugged!

Bring brightness and goodness into your day, and into your life!

Get inspired every day with a deck of my new POSitude cards! Available in my Etsy shop. Check them out and learn more, now!

Promo Image of POSitude cards on Etsy

I’m so happy you are here! You make my day brighter, and I thank you for your love and totally PINK hearts and smiles!!! Wishing you a delightful day filled with kindness and hope!!!

Love and Big Hugs,

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate
Arting It Up for happiness and healthiness: Color your stress away! Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs