My Body Is an Alien:
Why Fighting Stress Is So Important!

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

My Body Is an Alien: Why fighting stress is so important!

When we’re stressed … it doesn’t matter what kind of stress … mental (ie pressures at work), emotional (ie feeling depressed), or physical (ie illness, injury) …

When we’re stressed our bodies respond by creating cortisol the primary “stress hormone.”

In our body’s “hormone making hierarchy” it will preferentially make cortisol BEFORE it will make other hormones we need … like estrogen and progesterone.

So when we are stressed, our bodies make cortisol instead of the hormones we need, which results in hormone imbalance … and hormone imbalance often results in SYMPTOMS (for a big ol’ list of possibilities, click here), many of which are unfun and uncomfortable, some of which can go unnoticed (which actually isn’t a good thing … cuz we have SYMPTOMS as our warning signs … it’s our bodies talking to us, trying to tell us things aren’t good … it’s our bodies trying to tell us we need to fix “it.”

With “it” … going back to the stress and the preferential cortisol production … but that often gets missed.  We often miss the stress as the underlying cause, cuz we like live with stress all the time and “do just fine.”  It must be something else.  … Well, it could be.

But honestly … if we’re living under stress all the time, we are not doing “just fine.”  Our bodies are yelling at us, but on we go.

Okay.  So that’s the first layer.  Yep … we’re gonna onion right now.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs! Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

So the first layer is stress of any kind promoting cortisol production instead of our needed estrogen and progesterone.  And this causes hormone imbalance, which causes unfun SYMPTOMS.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Our second layer is when we experience prolonged stress (work, relationship, self-image, improper body weight, lack of movement in our bodies, toxicity in our foods, etc, etc, etc, … life), this prolonged stress results in prolonged production of cortisol … and this ain’t good.

Prolonged production of cortisol results in chronic inflammation.  And chronic inflammation leads to really uncool health challenges (aka, disease: cardiovascular disease, diabetes, the Big C, … to name a few).

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Right now, in the US, 60% of Americans suffer at least one chronic inflammation disease.  And 40% of those Americans suffer two or more.

25% of US women will die of cardiovascular disease.

And studies are now showing that 44% of millennials are already suffering at least one chronic disease.

There’s a rant built into the above statement for me … but I’ll leave it at the following:

Back to our onion.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Layer three is … what happens when all that stress builds up … all that chronic inflammation goes unchecked … unhealed …

Well, for about 8 – 10% of Americans, it results in something called autoimmune disease.  An autoimmune disease is when the body can’t tell itself (or bits of itself) from an invader and it starts attacking itself.

Some examples of autoimmune disease you may have heard of:

  • Celiac disease
  • Hashimoto thyroiditis
  • Multiple sclerosis
  • Rheumatoid arthritis
  • Psoriasis/psoriatic arthritis
  • Inflammatory bowel disease

Okay … so here it is … the real ass kicker … 80% of the people who suffer from autoimmune disease are … you guessed it … WOMEN!!!

80%!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That, my sweet blossoms, is 100% an indicator letting us know that our hormones are playing a role.  It’s our estrogen and progesterone the differentiate us from men.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Also … sucky note: once a person gets autoimmune disease, generally speaking, there is NO CURE.  Only doing your best to get and keep your body calmed and coping.  “Controlling the condition and symptoms” with a prioritized need to reduce inflammation and pain.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Essentially, these 2 effects of persistent stress and elevated cortisol levels … living life … don’t just reside individually in women – sweet blossoms, they generally compound one another.

Stress. Inflammation. Chronic Inflammation. Autoimmune disease. Autoimmune disorder. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Buuuuuuuuuuuut, so … you can stop autoimmune disease from happening, and you can help reverse chronic diseases … by guess what?

Dr. Amy Myers talks about autoimmune disease in great detail, with so much wellness to offer, in her book, The Autoimmune Solution.  In this book she talks about the “autoimmune spectrum.”

The autoimmune spectrum is essentially a path from no imflammation > some > mild > moderate > severe > and finally, achieved autoimmunity disorder.  Simply being a women, a beautiful blossom, even if you lived the cleanest, healthiest, best-est, non-toxic, zero-stress life, just being a blossom, puts you on this spectrum.

Add in all the stuff of your particular life … and well …

The bottom line … the one that leads to wellness … reduce our stress!

  • Sleep well
  • Eat organic, nutrient dense, whole foods – an anti-inflammatory diet – in all the colors of the rainbow
  • Drink plenty of water
  • Significantly reduce sugar in your diet, or eliminate it completely
  • Get movement into your body
  • Heal your gut (This one is super big and is interlaced over practically all of the other things listed here.)
  • Laugh and play
  • Spend time with people who you love and who love you
  • Breathe
  • Meditate
  • Color and create
  • Practice mindfulness
  • Let go and let be
  • Therapy
  • Sit in the sun

Find your groove.  What works for you.  The goal is to get stress down … A LOT!  As if your life depends on it.  Cuz, like your health does, and if your life relies on your health, then the math is simple.  Stress Reduction is Vital!!!

As an additional personal note and thought … I know stress can be hard to fight.  I know the lists are long, the to-do’s never ending.  There are days (I’ve managed to get it down to occasional lil bursts of time … a few hours, a day here or there), … there are times when my body just buzzes with the stress of everything.  I feel it in my chest.  My limbs.  My heart.  My bones.

My groove … what works for me … I tell myself the truth.  I’m stressed.  This stress is hurting me.  I need to love myself and take care of me, my mind, my body. … I need to calm down.  Find my peace again. …

I tell myself the truth … I need this moment in time to heal and cope and get well again.  Everything else can wait.  Everything else has to wait.

I have people depending on me … probably you have people depending on you, too … it can be easy to say, I’ll just push through until later … I HAVE to help these people who depend on me right now … except that the pushing through until later … later never seems to come.

Honestly, sweet blossom, you can’t help others after you fall.  The peeps can wait.  For 1 minute.  5 minutes.  … Take a day off here and there just for your rest and rejuvenation.  Whatever your groove is.  But find and grow your groove.  So you can get your stress down.

I also acknowledge that in order to get to a place in my life I had to reevaluate my values and change how I lived.  I had to reduce the stressy things on purpose.  Find and grow peace into my life with active choice.  Loving me.  Prioritizing me.

This was and is my groove.  You’ll find yours.  Only you can know.  But I hope in sharing mine, it might just be helpful love and encouragement, even some guiding ideas, to help you find yours.

 

Nourish to Flourish. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Thank you for being here with me and sharing time!  I hope you are well!

I invite you take this quick moment to smile big, hug yourself, and take a nice, big, juicy breath in … let go … and let your breath out slowly.

Big Love and Big Hugs!

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate

Introducing “My Body Is an Alien” (a women’s hormone health blog series)

My body is an alien. Hormone Health. Mary Kate Kopec. Love and Big Hugs!

Introducing “My body is an alien!” (women’s hormone health blog series)

Hello my beautiful bright souls! Thank you so much for being here! I’m so happy to be sharing this time with you!

What is all this “My body is an alien!” stuff about?

Lemme explain why I’m doing this blog series. It’s actually a long story of life and experiences, which I feel like we’ll uncover more of as we go, but let’s just hit the big picture:

I’ve been perimenopausing for a decade-ish now, with symptoms ranging from mild to severe, and it’s been my own kind of hellish challenge, robbing me of life, days, weeks, months. I’ve been to doctor after doctor. I’ve been reading like a champion. Always searching for what I can do to feel better and live healthier and happier again.

In all of this, I’ve learned A LOT! And I’ve done all of this learning within the context of my health science, research, healthcare-careers-coaching, and educational background.

And something I’ve learned is how appallingly deficient the informational and healthcare resources are out there for women.

So … me being a woman, perimenopausal, with many health challenges, educator, and being someone who is choosing to be a bright positive light to change the world around us into a happier, healthier place to be … I decided I needed to share what I’ve learned to:

  • help you feel better faster
  • to get positive, healing information to help and guide you and your choices toward improved wellness
  • to assure you, you are not alone
  • to remind you, our bodies changing is normal, but that doesn’t mean we understand or that it doesn’t scare us at time … so support is key
  • and, honestly, to help you see a reality about ourselves that can get lost (or until now, hasn’t been found). This reality is that although our bodies may feel alien to us at times (or all of the time), our bodies are nonetheless in this journey with us. As such, we need to become friends with our bodies and nurture our relationship and health together with respect for the codependent team we are. Me + My Body = Happiness and Healthiness!

So with all of that … What are we going to talk about?

We’re gonna talk about our bodies. Our health. Our happiness. Our lives and living more positively in wellness.

We’re gonna talk hormones. Those little beasties that rule our lives from a place deep inside that we can’t see without lots and lots of testing and blood work, … but … WE FEEL IT!

We’re gonna talk about how beautiful we are. How beautiful our bodies are. We’re gonna talk about finding and growing a peaceful, health-filled relationship with our bodies.

We’re gonna hit topics like (but not limited to, cuz there is so much I have to share, and I’ll keep posting goodness to help you as much as I can!):

  • All the stuff your mom didn’t tell you, cuz she didn’t know either (emerging women’s health knowledge)
  • Our bodies and what it takes to make them function well nutrition, hormone balance
  • Hormones (What are they how; How they affect you; Why you should care, … How come I feel so crappy, & what can I do about it?)
  • Hormone balance, imbalance and the cause/effect of each
  • When hormones go wonky … symptoms … and what you can do to help you feel better and well again.
  • Body image
  • Nutritional health … food as the best tasting medicine ever!
  • Wellness
  • Movement, as in get yo’ body moving, … movement as medicine!
  • The media is out to get us, lol, but for realz!
  • So much juicy wellness goodness informational and helpful stuff to help you … it’s gonna be crazy awesome!

Essentially, my goal is to share my own experiences as a 50 yr old, perimenopausal chick, and as my health aware self with all of my education and experiential background for additional highly informed insight!

  • MS in Human Genetics + additional considerate graduate studies in Molecular, Cellular, & Developmental Biology … (but all this science boiled down into usable human speak)
  • 20+ years pre-health career coaching, mentoring, and educating along with close relationships with medical and dental professionals
  • Scientist working in the pharmaceutical industry working on inflammation-based diseases (cardiovascular disease and diabetes, with distinguishing factors [hormones] for women)
  • Personally, I am a significant sufferer of hormone and health things gone wrong … for instance, how easy it is to think you are doing a good thing, but end up slowly depleting yourself (for lack of vital information, misinformation, misguidance, etc., especially from under-informed medical professionals)

Because you are important, and you make the world a brighter, better place!

I’m gonna bring my happiness, love, silliness, PINK, and fun into our chat … because, let’s be real, this stuff can be boring … or worse, scary at times. And my goal straight up is to help save your life and help you live happier, healthier, with ease and comfort and joy!

I’m gonna make you laugh.  I’m gonna make you smile.  I’m gonna make you feel loved.  I’m gonna let you know you are NOT alone.  You are not going crazy.  Your body is an alien.  And I’m gonna tell you how and why.  And I’m gonna tell you what you can do about it.  I’m gonna help you feel better and make the changes (nurturing and nourishing) you need to improve how you feel.

We’re going to grow you with positivity and AWESOMEness!!!

And that, my sweet pea is our introduction to My Body Is an Alien! Next chat, we’ll begin our wellness dive into some healthy, happy goodness with your body’s health and your mental and emotional wellness as our focus!

Love and Big Hugs Mary Kate